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possum
10-19-2005, 10:07 AM
The Checkers family lost a longtime member last month, and the article below was in the Observer this morning. You can see the same text here (http://www.charlotte.com/mld/charlotte/news/columnists/gerry_hostetler/12938051.htm). May Mr. Heath rest in peace.

IT'S A MATTER OF LIFE...
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Hockey fan made career of cheering his Checkers

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Willie Heath had missed only 1 game in about a dozen years
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GERRY HOSTETLER
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He would have been happy at the Pineville Ice House on Saturday. Not because his Charlotte Checkers lost to the Columbia Inferno by a single point, but because they had played at all. Win, lose or start a fight, they were his team.

Willie Eugene Heath Jr., who may have been the Checkers' all-time No. 1 fan, died Sept. 13 at age 63. The diabetes that struck 25 years ago slowly and methodically claimed toes, several fingers, his feet and legs; even stole part of his eyesight. But his enthusiasm for his team never faltered nor waned. He was so looking forward to the beginning of this new season.

"He was buried in his jersey," said nephew Alan King, "and asked that the pallbearers wear them as well. We did. All-in-all, close to 20 people at the graveside service donned jerseys over suits and ties."

Before diabetes sidelined Willie in 1993, he worked at PYA Monarch in produce and, for the past 22 years, in the freezer section. In the 1960s he worked in the produce department at the old Park `n' Shop on Wilkinson Boulevard, where he met Mary Elizabeth, a high school student who worked part-time in his department. Both were 18.

It took about a year but his nerve finally kicked in and he invited her to a concert at the old coliseum. They married in 1963 and added Mary Jean (Young) and son Billy to the family.

Dedicated fisherman

"He would go fishing at the drop of a hat," Mary said. Willie fished the local ponds and lakes, and later enjoyed fishing at the coast. "He'd get up at 5 a.m. and sit on the pier, fish for several hours, come home when it got hot then go back and fish some more."He nearly and narrowly missed getting hooked on hockey. "Years ago, an aunt and uncle invited us to a game," Mary said. "We went, and it was really a dull game. My aunt called me that night and said we went to a bad game, but when we play Greensboro, be sure to go to that game. We went back -- and he was hooked."

Since the team started back up about a dozen years ago, Mary said, Willie missed only one game. And that was because he was in Arkansas when it was played.

He managed the doctors

Willie spent lots of time in hospitals for first one thing, then another. But he always managed to manipulate dates and doctors so he could watch his boys skate and skitter the puck. "He'd sit there so sick he couldn't hold his head up, but he'd go to the games." He didn't miss one last year at all, his wife said.

No wonder. If Willie had to go to the hospital, he made sure he checked in the morning after the game. If there was a game scheduled that night, he coerced the doctor to discharge him before 3 p.m. so he could make it to the arena.

Willie's loyalty to the Checkers did not go unrewarded. When the team won the national league championship for the 1995-96 season, trainer Sal Lombardi visited the team's slapshot fan in the hospital. He brought the league trophy and championship ring for Willie to see. "He tried the ring on," Mary said. "He enjoyed that."

The Checkers cared right back; they sent flowers to Willie's funeral.

He wore the Checkers jersey for his funeral and Mary made sure he had his matching all-time favorite cap.

That would be the one you know, with all the players' autographs on it.

Gerry

Hostetler

Hockeynut47
10-19-2005, 10:41 AM
What a nice story. I'm sure he will be missed at the games this year.

ncbuckeyefan
10-19-2005, 11:44 AM
I'm sorry that I didn't get the chance to know him. Too bad he didn't get to catch the team in the new arena. :(

Gensfan19
10-19-2005, 03:03 PM
I'm sorry about your loss, I have only been to 1 game in Charlotte, but that was all it took to see how Passionate the Checkers fans are, So after reading that It didn't surprise me how dedicated he was to his Hometown team

My thoughts and prayers are with his family

CheckerGal
10-19-2005, 06:33 PM
Wow. That was a really nice article. It doesn't surprise me that the Checkers have fans like that. A similar situation happened with a family friend of mine last March. Rick was a HUGE fan and came to as many games as he could. He also had diabeties and like that article said about Willie, the disease slowly took Rick piece by piece. A few weeks before Rick died, we had the all the Checkers players sign for him a get well card. That meant the absolute world to him. He was buried with his Checkers cap and after he died the Checkers held a moment of silence for him at the start of the next game. That was really special to me and my family as Rick was a dear friend. When we were in the playoffs last year and kept on winning games under strange circumstances (When we only had 13 guys skating, The game 5 against Cola) we were sure that Rick was watching over this team and pushing them along.

I hope that The Checkers Organization knows how very special they are to so many of us. If not, they may know know after that wonderful article. And as always...Go Checkers! :1st:

Belfast Giant
10-19-2005, 07:07 PM
Very sad to hear this news, cant place if i knew this gentleman or not but would have been proud to know him, I hope one day someone can write something like that about me.

Cheers to you Mr Heath.

Warren

Side note, i also have diabetes so maybe he will help me help myself.

mbondur12
10-19-2005, 07:14 PM
Very nice story. Sounds like he was what every fan should be.

Roughing2Min
10-19-2005, 08:41 PM
I did not know this gentleman, but I did know Rick, that CG was speaking of, and if Mr. Heath was anything like him, he was a great man. Anyone agree with me that we should try to have the Checkers give a moment of silence at the first home game - being that it is the beginning of a new era, without someone who never failed to be there for the past one?

Just a thought.

The Sheriff
10-19-2005, 10:54 PM
That is some story.

Let's hope he can look down upon the Checkers and give a little **ummf** when they need it.

True fans...gotta love 'em.

Ice cheX
10-20-2005, 12:00 PM
I think I may know who this man was. If so, then I have met him once and he was a great man and a great fan. May he rest in peace and my prayers are with his family.

R2M, I think your idea is a good one. I'll bet they will honor him with a moment of silence.

possum
10-20-2005, 03:21 PM
There's a picture of him in the paper. I recognize him...I know we'd spoken before but I didn't know him well.

suthrngirl
10-20-2005, 09:28 PM
That is such a nice story. 63 isnt really that old. I send my sympathy to his family.

celticknot56
03-08-2008, 03:35 PM
I just wanted to say thank you to all of you who replied to this. This was my grandfather and I just happened to stumble upon it when I was looking up Checkers links. I knew this article existed but had not seen it online in any of the forums before. It's so great to know we had so many supporting us after his death. I haven't been to a game since then...its been about 2.5 years now. I just can't bring myself up to go...Did they ever do the moment of silence thing does anyone know? I'm just curious.

Thanks to everyone on here. It meant alot to me to read all these messages.

Jennilyn

Ice cheX
03-09-2008, 12:22 AM
It's so great to know we had so many supporting us after his death. I haven't been to a game since then...its been about 2.5 years now. I just can't bring myself up to go...Did they ever do the moment of silence thing does anyone know? I'm just curious.
Yes, they did. It was a large crowd that night, too.
[QUOTE=celticknot56] Thanks to everyone on here. It meant alot to me to read all these messages.
Thank you for sharing your story with us. I'm glad to know that this board does some good every now and again. I feel your pain in the loss of your grandfather, but know this...he would want to you to continue doing the things you love. Hopefully, you'll be able to return to a game. When you do, let us know so we can say hello. :console:

celticknot56
04-11-2011, 12:10 PM
It's been several years since I have posted on here. I still have yet to go back to a Checkers game though I literally live within 5 minutes of the location they are now playing in. Reading this thread made me tear up. I am very thankful to know there are people who stood behind us even though you all didn't know him.

At Wal-Mart one day I found a keychain that was a hockey player that said Guardian Angel. I *knew* I had to have it. It reminded me of him so much that I almost feel like he was responsible for me finding it as there was only 1 and it wasn't even in the right spot. Since then I carried it everywhere with me. I lost it recently and got so upset I just about cried for losing it.

Anyways, thanks again everyone. I will make it back to a game at some point I am sure. I'm just not sure I'm ready yet even though it's been 6 years.